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(Episode 6)
Sex ed?
Yeah.
This might be the first time since you're pretty new...
but our company has sex ed once a year.
And that day would be today.
But it's still odd they want to have sex ed for a group of adults.
To be precise, it's to teach sexual harassment prevention.
Sexual harassment prevention.
But still, won't it be odd listening to that with Ms. Ahn in the room?
She's the only female on our team.
It's just a mere formality so it's not a big deal.
But what's this? Are you seriously counting her as a female?
What? Um...
- I was just... - That's exactly what's considered sexual harassment at work.
Geez, Mr. Choi! Please!
That's not sexual harassment.
Be careful Mr. Park. You're lucky Ms. Ahn isn't here.
You always say things like that but if she hears you, she'll just...
Mr. Na.
Sorry to interrupt your spiel about me, but the instructor is here.
- Ms. Ahn, that's not what was... - Please come to the conference room.
Is everyone here? Then let's begin.
I'm sure everyone knows the content, you're all educated and...
and you would never sexually harass anyone.
I'll turn on the video and take some accreditation pictures.
Here we go, one, two, three!
Yes, that's good.
One, two, three.
When certain actions are taken on a female co-workers...
and personal feelings involved...
it's more than understandable for a rational woman to consider...
these acts as degrading and humiliation.
You'd have to consider this a formality.
We should all be comfortable since we're all busy.
Job well done everyone. We're all finished.
I'm not finished.
- Excuse me? - I'm not finished at all.
The guidelines for Labor Laws...
suggest sexual harassment classes not be a formality...
and it should be at least an hour long. Am I wrong?
Under Section 4 of Equal Opportunity Employment...
there were information that must be presented during the workshop.
You know a lot more than me.
I was trying to be considerate to those who were busy.
And I was worried the females in here would be uncomfortable.
That's sexual harassment as well.
Should I formally file a complaint?
- I'm sorry. Then let's start from... - Never mind.
Mr. Choi...
may I request another workshop with another instructor?
Sure, why not.
I'll do it over again.
Excuse me. I'll rewind and we can start this day all over again.
What's with you? Is it because this wasn't what you were expecting?
No...
it was more than I expected.
When Ms. Ahn said that aloud, everyone was frozen for a split second.
The instructor was scared out of his mind.
Do you think it's spinster hysteria?
Do you realize that's sexual harassment?
What are you talking about? It's not like I'm making it up!
Geez, men are all the same.
You'll get sued for sexual harassment!
Can you please make some sense?
I might not be able to live without food...
but I'm a man who can live without laws.
From the survey 6.4% answered...
they have had one or more instances where they felt sexually harassed.
These instances were most often occurred at company parties.
Assailants were usually company superiors...
What are the guidelines for sexual harassment?
We're comfortable so we joke around and company dinners are part of the culture.
Geez, women are all the same.
How can you say that when you have a daughter?
Fine, fine.
But shouldn't Ik-hee be home already?
Yeah, she's a bit late tonight.
Hey, Yoon!
Are you finished?
Whoa! Are you here to pick up Ik-hee?
Are you flaunting that you're a couple now?
You should've told me you were coming.
I thought of you when I was on my way home.
Okay, I'll leave you two alone then.
Why? Where are you going?
I have sense to realize three's a crowd. See you tomorrow!
I'll walk you home.
Do you want to walk instead of taking the bus?
- The eel restaurant was pretty good. - Why? Do you feel its energy already?
What's the use? She won't let me go near her since it's her first trimester.
Geez, what am I going to do all night?
Damn it! All my energy is bursting into... What? What are you doing?
I didn't know you were there, Ms. Ahn.
- Did you have lunch, Ms. Ahn? - Yes.
Here, one for each person.
This is for Mr. Choi and one for Kwi-nam.
Wedding invitations?
It's a notice disguised as wedding invitations.
Ms. Ahn is finally getting married!
Every Jack has his Jill! When did you have time to date and plan all this?
It's Mr. Suh's daughter's wedding.
Guys these days must be crazy...
since no one is snatching up Ms. Ahn as their wife.
Of course! Ms. Ahn's is as pretty as they come!
She looks like, Song Hae...
- Kyo? - No, just Song Hae.
National Singing Contest!
(A couple of days later)
In order to have true equality of the sexes...
we cannot think of our co-workers as male or female...
but it starts by seeing them as a team member.
What I'm trying to say is that a workplace isn't where...
two opposite sexes meet, but rather, two different inclinations.
When we all respect one another, work together...
and work towards making the company a success...
that is when true equality of the sexes can be accomplished.
Now that we've finished watching our video...
let's set aside some time to confess our own acts...
of sexual harassment that we previously committed.
How about...
we start with Mr. Na Chun-il's confession?
What acts of sexual harassment have you committed?
Me?
Why are you starting with me?
Well, it seems as if Mr. Na is embarrassed.
Everyone, today's confessions were committed when we weren't educated...
so let's agree to forgive one another's acts. Do you agree?
- Yes. - Yes. - Yes.
When you confess, Mr. Na...
Ms. Ahn over here will represent the females...
and you will say, "I forgive you for your sins."
Oh, sure.
That's a bit...
What's the problem? This is a sacred act.
A sacred act!
- Are you ready, Ms. Ahn? - Yes.
Great! Please start your confession.
I don't really remember...
Please be honest. Hurry.
Just tell us whatever comes to mind.
I'm not sure if this right or not.
Awhile back, Ms. Ahn came to work in new clothes that were very clingy...
so I complimented her about how her clothes accentuated her curves.
Yes, you did.
You said my body had curves in areas it shouldn't.
That's sexual harassment. Apologize to her.
But I didn't mean it that way.
I'm sorry, Ms. Ahn.
I forgive you for your sins.
Another one?
Me again?
I'm sure you had more than one.
Take this opportunity to cleanse yourself.
I gave her well-wishes for the new year by telling her I hoped she met someone...
great this year and hoped she would find someone. That can't be...
Yes, you told me to get married before turning into a virgin ghost.
That's sexual harassment. You're meddling in her social life.
Apologize to her.
Alright.
I'm sorry, Ms. Ahn.
I forgive you for your sins.
- Amen. - Another one?
Another one? Why? Why are you only picking me?
Confess everything and feel free. Now, please.
It was during our last company dinner.
Ms. Ahn was sitting next to our executive director...
so I asked her to pour him a drink.
You demanded a love shot, even though I didn't do it.
My goodness!
But the executive director was more upset about it than Ms. Ahn.
Apologize to her immediately!
I'm sorry, Ms. Ahn.
I forgive you for your sins.
Jesus!
Again!
She wore a skirt once...
so I told her we should go pick radishes together for kimchi.
It was just a joke...
That's sexual harassment!
Does that sound funny to you? Does it?
I forgive you for your sins.
I felt like I was in confession.
When it came down to it...
aside from breathing, everything I did...
was considered some sort of sexual harassment act.
But do you know what was more dumbfounding?
Now...
we heard enough of the many sins from Mr. Na.
Due to time constraints, let's listen to one more before we end our session.
Let's hear from Mr. Park Won-gyun this time.
Please confess.
While...
Mr. Na was committing those horrendous acts...
I stood next to him and didn't try to stop him.
It was as if I were his accomplice.
I'm sorry, Ms. Ahn.
This is exactly what I'm talking about!
This is the kind of co-worker we need!
The courage not to ignore sexual harassment in the workplace!
I forgive you for your sins.
Hallelujah!
I think that's about it for today and I believe..
many of you understood our lesson today.
I'd like to call it a day for today.
Everyone, good job today.
Am I the only trash in here? You should treat everyone the same!
This isn't fair. Excuse me!
Excuse me! Instructor! Wait a minute! Excuse me.
Ms. Ahn?
Aren't you coming?
You go ahead, I'll be there soon.
- Ms... - Do you need to tell me something?
I have a question.
Okay, go ahead.
You're not...
dating anyone, are you?
Is that your question?
I don't have time for dating.
Then...
do you like kids?
Why?
Do you want to set me up with a divorced man with a kid?
No, the opposite.
There's a guy who doesn't like kids.
Kwi-nam!
It hasn't even been 10 minutes since we learned about sexual harassment.
What? Are you worried I won't be able to get married?
No, I was just curious about...
You should really stop.
- Are you okay? - Where do you think you're touching?
What? No. It was because you fell toward me.
But still! Where do you think you're putting your hands?
What was I supposed to do? It's not like you have handles.
Just forget about it! You're such a pervert! So disgusting!
I'm a pervert?
This is like slapping the person who gave you CPR...
after they rescue you from drowning!
You should be embarrassed of yourself! I know I'm pretty, but please!
I'm so disgusted!
(He's trash again)
This is reverse discrimination and reverse harassment.
Tell me, honey! Am I that kind of person?
- Yep. - Honey!
I'm sure it was a misunderstanding since there's so many weirdos out there.
You can't misunderstand that!
- How can she misunderstand chivalry? - Chivalry?
I suppose so.
You are very chivalrous every night with me.
We're not talking about that right now.
Mom, mom! Hurry, come over here! Hurry!
Why? I'm doing dishes.
Hurry!
Do you need toilet paper?
No! Not you, dad!
Hurry, mom!
I'm here. Open the door.
Dad's not with you, is he?
He's not here.
Don't tell dad.
Alright.
Why?
Do you have a stomach ache?
- No, it's not that but... - Mom!
Alright! Fine.
It's a secret between females.
Did you see that?
It's actually females who try to divide males and females.
Ms. Ahn.
I think you should change our water bottle today.
- Excuse me? - Why are you surprised? I thought you wanted equality.
We need to act upon true equality of the sexes.
- Okay. - I'll do it.
Don't do it, Kwi-nam. Male civil rights should be protected by us.
It's alright. You don't need to help.
Mr. Choi!
- Please put in a request to the company. - For what?
An investigation into the sexual harassment men receive here.
What kind of false confidence is that for you to stand so far away?
Can't you stand closer, mister?
I don't want to.
- Excuse me? - Ma'am, please don't come in here when someone's using the stalls.
This is sexual harassment.
What? What harassment?
I asked you to step closer since you're leaking everywhere. What in the world...
I'm not going to stand for this if you keep it up.
- What are you going to do about it? - I might break this toilet!
I've never seen a more weirder guy, geez.
That's so spicy!
They say little pepper are the hottest. Why is this one so hot?
Ms. Ahn!
What did you just say?
Geez, it's spicy. Why?
Small peppers are the spiciest? How can you say such comments so nonchalantly?
What's wrong, Mr. Na?
This is sexual harassment against men.
What are you imagining?
I'm imagining what Ms. Ahn was imagining.
We should be embarrassed for him.
Stop saying strange things, Mr. Na. Please pass the water.
Water? Water is self-serve!
Didn't you see the sign?
(Water is self-serve)
It's as if male co-worker's acts of kindness are a given.
Male co-workers!
Unite and stand together!
I'll see you tomorrow, Mr. Choi.
Ms. Ahn!
Isn't this a bit too much?
You don't work out of the office these days and you take off before anyone else.
I haven't been feeling well.
How is that an excuse?
I'm really not...
- Why aren't you feeling well? - She has a stomach ache.
I have a stomach ache too!
My belly aches because Mr. Kim has better sales than I do this month.
- Then I can go a little later? - Of course.
That's how we become an equal company and we become real partners.
Now, now. Let's all leave a little early since Ms. Ahn isn't feeling so well.
Mr. Choi! How come you're seeing Ms. Ahn as a fragile female?
Ms. Ahn is a capable co-worker of this company and she's our comrade!
Isn't that right, Comrade Ahn?
Ms. Ahn was going to use her monthly vacation today.
It's that day for her!
(That day?)
It's just a secret between females.
That day?
Then was that because it was that day?
You're home early!
- Where's Ik-hee? - Look at the time. She's still at tutoring.
Why did you send her when she has a stomach ache?
Honey...
you know Ik-hee had an ache last night...
Was it because she became a woman?
Whoa! You figured it out!
How come you didn't tell me?
You didn't give me time to tell you. You clonked out.
What are dads supposed to do?
What do you mean? Just congratulate her.
Congratulate her?
Of course. It's a sign that our daughter has matured.
But she was avid about you not telling me.
Then pretend like you don't know.
What am I supposed to do? What do I say to her?
Should I just ignore it?
No, it's still a moment in history for her.
What are you blabbering about?
Just buy her a commemoration present and congratulate her.
What kind of present?
Can't you figure it out on your own?
Oh, okay. I will.
(First menstruation cycle present)
Mr. Na, Kwachun Warehouse sent over our purchase order.
What are you looking at?
Whoa! My goodness!
Mr. Na, you're not...
getting a present for Ms. Ahn, are you?
No matter how sorry you are, this isn't the way to go.
What? What are you talking about?
Mr. Na! You're going to get sued if you keep this up!
What are you talking about?
This is...
never mind. Go away. Forget about it.
So you're saying, your daughter is a woman now.
I'm sure you know since you have a child too.
Yes, but I only have sons.
But I did give my son a present for his first wet dream.
Really? What did you buy him?
- The best tissue I could find him. - What?
It was just a symbolic present.
To commemorate it, I made him wash his own underwear.
Why?
Why not? It was to teach him that a man should take responsibility for his actions.
But I have a daughter.
The situation is a bit different.
I'm not sure.
What am I going to do?
Don't you think it's best to truly congratulate her?
I'm sure she'll be more humiliated if you try ignoring it or are embarrassed by it.
- You think so too? - Be as natural as possible.
And congratulate her with all your might and truly be happy for her.
Happy birthday.
Over here! Over here!
Mother!
My goodness! What made you think of having dinner at a place like this?
You must have good news. You even invited me too.
It's very good news.
Ik-hee, do you like this restaurant?
This restaurant is for little kids, I'm not that into it.
But since you let me skip tutoring, I'll eat for your sake.
What should we order, mom? Grandma?
Let's take a look.
Everything looks so good!
This looks good too. Let's order this one.
- How about this one? - Yeah, that looks good.
Happy menstruation to you!
Happy menstruation to my daughter!
Happy menstruation to you!
Ik-hee! Happy menstruation day!
Ta-da!
Are you crazy, dad?
- What... - Geez, you idiot!
- Geez! - How grotesque!
Wait, Ik-hee!
Get out, mom!
I'm going crazy.
What did she say?
What else did you expect. She doesn't ever want to see you.
What? Really?
Why would you do that in public?
I thought she'd feel embarrassed if I was awkward about it.
So I wanted to be proud of her.
So you decided to tell the whole world? Huh?
Geez! You're making me age faster than I need to.
- What do I do? - What do you mean?
Just leave her alone for awhile.
She doesn't even want to see your face.
This is all Mr. Choi's fault.
I didn't know you'd throw a public party for her.
You said for me not to hide it and be loud about it. I only did what I was told.
How are you going to take responsibility for splitting up a father and daughter?
Why are you asking me when you're the one who caused the problem?
You can't do this. What am I going to do now?
Try writing a handwritten letter.
What are you doing there, Ms. Ahn?
Did you go out of the office with Mr. Park?
Kwi-nam went on my behalf since I wasn't feeling so well.
Is that so?
When I said, "That day", I wasn't...
referring to you, Ms. Ahn. Ik-hee was...
I heard already.
I wasn't trying to eavesdrop, but you two were so loud.
Tell her what you want to say with a handwritten letter.
Add a silver ring or necklace with it.
A silver ring or necklace?
Silver usually symbolizes purity and virginity.
That's what it means?
Thank you, Ms. Ahn.
And I'm sorry for being narrow-minded the last couple of days.
It's alright. I'm going to get some coffee, would you like some?
No, no, no! I'll get it for you. You stay there.
Ik-hee.
If you don' want to open the door...
I'll leave your letter and present here. You can see it later on.
I don't want to!
Ik-hee, please.
I'm so sorry. I made a really big mistake.
Ik-hee, please.
Ik-hee?
To my daughter, this father is wretched so I'm so very...
sorry!
I think she gets it! Stop!
- I'm really sorry, Ik-hee. - You're about to make me cry.
Ik-hee, I...
put it right in front of your door. Alright?
To my daughter, who I love and love with all my might. Dear Ik-hee...
In 2002, during a soccer match between Poland and South Korea, your mom and dad...
lost their rationality when we watched Hwang Sun-hong's volley shoot.
We were true devils that day.
So without any planning, you were conceived that night.
- That's right, Ik-hee. You were conceived in Bali. - (Bali Hotel)
Our little Ik-hee who was conceived that night...
has grown and become a beautiful young lady.
But I'm so sorry that I hurt your feelings.
But you know how I feel, don't you?
You've grown up so fast, later in life...
you'll get married too, right?
It already makes me cry thinking about that day...
but it's not like I can send you to a convent.
Please wait until you're twenty... No, thirty...
No, until you meet the one...
please keep yourself sacred and precious. Trust no other man than your dad.
Other than your dad, every man on this earth is a thief...
swindler, wolf or a spoon worm.
Lastly...
I wrote a little poem...
for you.
Even if I died and died again...
or even if I died 100 times over...
How could my single-minded devotion ever sway or change...
even if I have to work my hands to the bone or starve to death.
Your father who truly loves you, you have wrapped around your fingers.
I thought this would look good on you. For our 10th day anniversary. Gong Yoon.
Are you still mad, Ik-hee?
I don't know.
I'm going to school.
Wait for me.
I'm late!
She's always late.
Honey...
Ik-hee's still mad at me, isn't she?
I don't know. She seems the same to me.
She usually doesn't like going with you.
If she was still mad, she probably wouldn't even look at you.
Right?
It's better, right?
Thank you. She forgave me because of your idea.
I was thinking about it...
and I think you had a rough time since you were on our team with only males.
- It's alright. - No. We teased you and we weren't considerate of your feelings.
So I thought of an idea.
Mr. Choi...
how about we request a female co-worker for our next intern?
Sounds good! Ms. Ahn won't be lonely anymore. It's a great idea.
Yes it does. I agree, but I'll have to get it approved.
(Super Family Equality Campaign)
Sexual equality wasn't about who changed the office water bottle.
It was about acknowledging the other sex and understanding them.
It was also about respecting each person's work habits.
Oh! And also...
it would be perfect if we were all chivalrous by not ignoring sexual harassment...
and stopping it!
(Chivalrous Act Example 1: The Conference Room)
Ms. Ahn...
- About last time... - Lee Kwi-nam!
I asked you to stop bringing that up.
Just hear me out.
I said I don't want to hear it.
- I didn't mean it like that but... - Lee Kwi-nam?
Ms. Ahn will be uncomfortable if it's just the two of you in such closed quarters.
Mr. Na...
- I'm fine. - No, it's not fine.
He's not being considerate. Not at all.
You should talk to her with the door wide open like this.
Why is Ms. Ahn so mad anyways? What is it?
You should tell me first.
- Excuse me? - You two can stay in here and talk.
Her spinster hysteria is still alive and kicking!
(Chivalrous Act Example 2: Inside The Bus)
How dare you stand here and rub a woman's butt?
Sir! Can you stop the car?
It's because of guys like you that make us normal guys look bad!
If you want to touch it so badly, then go home and touch your wife's butt!
This is my wife's butt.
- This person here? - That's right!
We've been married for two weeks now. What now?
Let go of my hand!
My gosh! What the hell!
What the hell do you think you're doing?
Honey, don't get involved. Let's get off.
Sir! Can you open the door for us?
What's wrong with him?
- What's with him? - (Misunderstood trash)
This is too hard.
Really hard.
(Episode 6: A Sacred Story)
(Super Family 2017)
- A bag? - You'd better buy it for me.
I'll be really disappointed.
Don't you see the wallet I've been using for the past 8 years?
The executive director is bowling.
The Vice President is having a fishing tournament.
Mr. Na, you need to make a distinct route.
- Whose side are you on? - Whose side are you on?
What do you mean side in a family?
My head already hurts from choosing between fishing or bowling.
- Did you decide what to buy? - I think a bag is better.
- I think you should buy your wife's wallet. - What should I buy? Oh! Eureka!
(Next week, Monday night at 11:10)
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